Should I still be with him? Short and accurate version.?
this guy and me had been together for over 5 months. He was amazing at first, but recently i didn’t feel that he cared about me. We only got to see each other once a week and I always had to go meet him places. also, we are about the same age. He is really into golf and I always felt like he cared more about that than me. The thought of him not caring about me was only confirmed when he did not tell me happy birthday on my birthday. He nonchalantly texted me for a while and then stoped. Late at night he asked if I had a good birthday. I remember him saying b4 that if he didn’t remember my bday he knew I’d break up with him. So, I thought he wanted me to, even though I knew he remembered. I really didn’t think he cared about me at all and I was extremely hurt. I broke up with him the next night after we had fought about it on my bday. He knew I was going to leave him had to have, but didn’t call or text or anything. I called him at 10:00 at night and told him we were no longer together and he just said ok. That really hurt bc I knew he didn’t care at all and it sounded like both of us needed to move on. But yesterday his sis, him, and me had an im convo about it. I guess he was really hurt that we broke up and he said ok because "he had no idea what to say when i said that cause he likes me so much and he did not want it to end and he did not want to make it any worse" Do you think I should’ve broken up with him?
also we never said " i love you" to each other. thought i’d add that bc 1 answerer said something about that.
If he acted like that….yes you should of, not saying that yall can’t work things out but if he wants to be apart of your life he gotta act better then that.If he can’t or won’t some one else will come along and do it. I don’t care what he was doing, he could not of been to busy to tell his girl happy birthday and you always have to meet him places….dude was not acting like a TRUE boyfriend.
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Any guy that loves you will fight for you unless you’re always "breaking up with him" and getting back together. If he really likes you.. he will not want you to leave and he will make it clear.
Also – if you’re having doubts this soon in the relationship, it’s probably best to move on. =/
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If he acted like that….yes you should of, not saying that yall can’t work things out but if he wants to be apart of your life he gotta act better then that.If he can’t or won’t some one else will come along and do it. I don’t care what he was doing, he could not of been to busy to tell his girl happy birthday and you always have to meet him places….dude was not acting like a TRUE boyfriend.
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